We hope you enjoyed last month’s commemorative issue of North Dakota Living celebrating the 250th anniversary of the Declaration of Independence. We enjoyed showcasing the people, stories, industries and communities shaping our state and our nation.
After reflecting on the ideas that gave birth to our nation, it’s fitting this month’s issue focuses on civic engagement in the democratic process. You’ll find stories connected by a common theme: the importance of being informed and engaged citizens.
But before diving into this issue, I want to thank those who have stepped forward, or may in the future, to appear on a ballot, whether in a primary election or a general election at the local, state or federal level. Running for office requires courage, thick skin and a genuine desire to serve.
Regardless of political affiliation or election outcome, our democracy is stronger because individuals are willing to raise their hands and serve.
That is especially true in today’s political environment, where common ground and compromise often seem to be in short supply. Too often, thoughtful discussion is replaced by soundbites, and efforts to understand a different point of view are criticized rather than encouraged.
I recently came across a line that really struck me and made me stop and think:
“The quickest way to tell how intelligent someone is, is by seeing how well they can consider someone else’s point of view without getting defensive.”
But it’s easier said than done. It requires us to listen, learn and stay curious. To be willing to admit when we’re wrong. And maybe most importantly, to leave room for the possibility someone else might be right. In other words, it requires us to be civil.
Civility doesn’t mean agreement. It doesn’t mean giving up your beliefs or values. It simply means treating people with respect, listening before reacting and being open to the idea that someone else might have a good point. That’s not a weakness. It’s a strength.
Former Gov. Ed Schafer touches on this very idea in this month’s issue. It was an honor to feature Schafer and his thoughts on civility, leadership and finding common ground.
When you read it, it inspires you to put those ideas into practice. As Schafer reminds us, restoring civility doesn’t start in Washington, D.C., or at the state Capitol. It starts around the kitchen table, in our churches, schools, cooperatives, community organizations and small towns. It starts with the example we set for our children and grandchildren.
At the end of the day, democracy works best when we listen, learn and respect one another. That’s a lesson worth remembering, not just during an election year, but every day.
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Josh Kramer, editor-in-chief of North Dakota Living, is executive vice president and general manager of NDAREC. Contact him at jkramer@ndarec.com.
